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		<title>By: Anthony</title>
		<link>http://www.designer-life.com/blog/why-we-sabotage-success/comment-page-1/#comment-1494</link>
		<dc:creator>Anthony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 12:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do not want the change enough because it is unconvient and scary. The current supposed certainty appears more convenient than the supposed fear of loosing it all. So I do not believe trust enough in the new goal. I appear resistant towards my own good sense that says to make the change now!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do not want the change enough because it is unconvient and scary. The current supposed certainty appears more convenient than the supposed fear of loosing it all. So I do not believe trust enough in the new goal. I appear resistant towards my own good sense that says to make the change now!</p>
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		<title>By: Adnan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adnan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 22:43:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not believing in myself enough, is the one...
Can, however seem to visualise the remedy !
Thanks and kind regards
Adnan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not believing in myself enough, is the one&#8230;<br />
Can, however seem to visualise the remedy !<br />
Thanks and kind regards<br />
Adnan</p>
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		<title>By: MR. TD</title>
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		<dc:creator>MR. TD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 03:32:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good stuff!  You&#039;ve broken it down into a very understandable overview of the whole process.  I would like to say that, the videos you put out are very informative and worth watching.  Compared to some other ones, I like watching your videos in particular.  Especially with the Caribbean background, very enjoyable to watch! I can relate to a lot of the people out there with goals or dreams that haven&#039;t been realized yet.  If it&#039;s something you absolutely want, my words would be not to give up, ever!  This is just inspiring.  Thanks for the video Bruce.

MR. TDBANK</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good stuff!  You&#8217;ve broken it down into a very understandable overview of the whole process.  I would like to say that, the videos you put out are very informative and worth watching.  Compared to some other ones, I like watching your videos in particular.  Especially with the Caribbean background, very enjoyable to watch! I can relate to a lot of the people out there with goals or dreams that haven&#8217;t been realized yet.  If it&#8217;s something you absolutely want, my words would be not to give up, ever!  This is just inspiring.  Thanks for the video Bruce.</p>
<p>MR. TDBANK</p>
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		<title>By: MR. TD</title>
		<link>http://www.designer-life.com/blog/why-we-sabotage-success/comment-page-1/#comment-1426</link>
		<dc:creator>MR. TD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 03:29:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would say ...all of them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would say &#8230;all of them.</p>
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		<title>By: Suzy Sharpe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Suzy Sharpe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 11:50:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>either 2 or 3 for me, but I am not sure what I do believe is possoble and not sure what my goals are conflicting with.

Thank you it is making me think about it...this time I may get a little further.
Suzy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>either 2 or 3 for me, but I am not sure what I do believe is possoble and not sure what my goals are conflicting with.</p>
<p>Thank you it is making me think about it&#8230;this time I may get a little further.<br />
Suzy</p>
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		<title>By: John D</title>
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		<dc:creator>John D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 19:04:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rebecca
some wise words - thank you!
It is not quite th ecase with me as I have so many wonderful things around me that I just desparately want to get on and do.
Interestingly, in th e2 years of not running, I (re)took up photography and have taken some stunning photos, so I agree with your analysis that my body was telling me to slow down and look for a wider range of things in life.
Clearly I&#039;ve not taken on all the lessons yet, otherwise I would be well again - hopefully soon.

Good luck with your new future</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rebecca<br />
some wise words &#8211; thank you!<br />
It is not quite th ecase with me as I have so many wonderful things around me that I just desparately want to get on and do.<br />
Interestingly, in th e2 years of not running, I (re)took up photography and have taken some stunning photos, so I agree with your analysis that my body was telling me to slow down and look for a wider range of things in life.<br />
Clearly I&#8217;ve not taken on all the lessons yet, otherwise I would be well again &#8211; hopefully soon.</p>
<p>Good luck with your new future</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 15:43:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Typo above - to show - not to shop - amongst Royal Academy graduates! :&lt;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Typo above &#8211; to show &#8211; not to shop &#8211; amongst Royal Academy graduates! :&lt;)</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 15:09:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bruce, you are spot on with ALL that - so obvious yet we often overlook the obvious!

John - I had ME years ago,after a very stressful period disentangling myself from an abusive marriage and my then career was in tatters. I hit a point where I allowed myself to just keel over.  Somewhere inside I knew that this &#039;illness&#039; was my friend because it made me decide to clear all the crap out of my life and just take on what I wanted. Even though  I lost my home (which was about taking on what others told me I should have) and everything else, I hit a point after that where I decided I had nothing left to lose, and it was time to do something that I had always wanted to do and go to art college.

I wanted it so much that I was accepted at all the colleges I applied to, including two colleges in London who both took in around 40 students out of 2000 applicants, and found scholarships to fund me and the equipment I needed. At the end of my first year, at a point where I felt that I didn&#039;t belong because my work was so different to others, and I doubted myself and felt lost and out of place, I was  given a 3 month show in Mayfair, the only invited photographer to shop among a group of Royal Academy graduates, all  through a series of  events which led to &#039;chance&#039; encounters. In fact in my second year of my degree I became house photographer for a Jazz club and  was working in the live music industry in London and published...

I&#039;m not blowing my own trumpet but explaining that I found that something and focused on it, (art school which led to a degree in photography as a mature student), and the ways of doing it came to me, (though I made sure it was all on my terms), and I soon forgot I had  ME. One day I realized I was over the ME, as long as I wanted to be. If nothing else, your post here is a reminder to me that I always get what I want, but that deciding what I want is paramount. What I expect and believe is what I get - as well all do. 

Fast forward some years and more changes that I wanted and then another feeling of I want an adventure ... after an epiphany 4 years ago, I emigrated to the USA to open an art gallery, and it was as though everything I had every done had led to this. Now, my biggest challenge is to get over my limiting beliefs about money! :&gt;)

John, you decided on something (the marathon) and did it, and then, (I&#039;m guessing from my own experiences),  didn&#039;t have something else to follow it up with, so went back to the ME which is, at least, familiar and you know approximately what to expect. I know there was a time where, somewhere inside, I felt safe being ill until I decided I wanted something else. Now find something you really want and focus on it ... as I must again!

Good luck - feel good soon!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bruce, you are spot on with ALL that &#8211; so obvious yet we often overlook the obvious!</p>
<p>John &#8211; I had ME years ago,after a very stressful period disentangling myself from an abusive marriage and my then career was in tatters. I hit a point where I allowed myself to just keel over.  Somewhere inside I knew that this &#8216;illness&#8217; was my friend because it made me decide to clear all the crap out of my life and just take on what I wanted. Even though  I lost my home (which was about taking on what others told me I should have) and everything else, I hit a point after that where I decided I had nothing left to lose, and it was time to do something that I had always wanted to do and go to art college.</p>
<p>I wanted it so much that I was accepted at all the colleges I applied to, including two colleges in London who both took in around 40 students out of 2000 applicants, and found scholarships to fund me and the equipment I needed. At the end of my first year, at a point where I felt that I didn&#8217;t belong because my work was so different to others, and I doubted myself and felt lost and out of place, I was  given a 3 month show in Mayfair, the only invited photographer to shop among a group of Royal Academy graduates, all  through a series of  events which led to &#8216;chance&#8217; encounters. In fact in my second year of my degree I became house photographer for a Jazz club and  was working in the live music industry in London and published&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not blowing my own trumpet but explaining that I found that something and focused on it, (art school which led to a degree in photography as a mature student), and the ways of doing it came to me, (though I made sure it was all on my terms), and I soon forgot I had  ME. One day I realized I was over the ME, as long as I wanted to be. If nothing else, your post here is a reminder to me that I always get what I want, but that deciding what I want is paramount. What I expect and believe is what I get &#8211; as well all do. </p>
<p>Fast forward some years and more changes that I wanted and then another feeling of I want an adventure &#8230; after an epiphany 4 years ago, I emigrated to the USA to open an art gallery, and it was as though everything I had every done had led to this. Now, my biggest challenge is to get over my limiting beliefs about money! :&gt;)</p>
<p>John, you decided on something (the marathon) and did it, and then, (I&#8217;m guessing from my own experiences),  didn&#8217;t have something else to follow it up with, so went back to the ME which is, at least, familiar and you know approximately what to expect. I know there was a time where, somewhere inside, I felt safe being ill until I decided I wanted something else. Now find something you really want and focus on it &#8230; as I must again!</p>
<p>Good luck &#8211; feel good soon!</p>
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		<title>By: John D</title>
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		<dc:creator>John D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 09:38:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Bruce - another great video!!
My challenge is I&#039;m attempting to conquer chronic fatigue.
I use Manifestation for Relaxation, which is great, and my &#039;vision&#039; is everything that will come together when I regain my health.
However, it is not the &quot;perfect health&quot; itself, which may be where your 7 points come in.
I&#039;m re-defining my description of health to focus upon, albeit I&#039;m doing struggle pretty well, and cannot find anything &#039;solid&#039; as yet.
I had ME 20 years ago and recovered to do 33 marathons, so my belief system is certainly attuned to knowing I can recover; and my RAS is seeking out loads of opportunities, but I&#039;m not improving.

Ideas?

John</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Bruce &#8211; another great video!!<br />
My challenge is I&#8217;m attempting to conquer chronic fatigue.<br />
I use Manifestation for Relaxation, which is great, and my &#8216;vision&#8217; is everything that will come together when I regain my health.<br />
However, it is not the &#8220;perfect health&#8221; itself, which may be where your 7 points come in.<br />
I&#8217;m re-defining my description of health to focus upon, albeit I&#8217;m doing struggle pretty well, and cannot find anything &#8216;solid&#8217; as yet.<br />
I had ME 20 years ago and recovered to do 33 marathons, so my belief system is certainly attuned to knowing I can recover; and my RAS is seeking out loads of opportunities, but I&#8217;m not improving.</p>
<p>Ideas?</p>
<p>John</p>
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		<title>By: Kucki Low</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kucki Low</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 23:41:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Bruce, 

Thanks for your great video. I have both of your Cd&#039;s and use them daily. They have really helped me to stay on track and moving closer and closer to achieving my goal.

Thanks for what you.You are awesome!

With much joy and gratitude,
Kucki





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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Bruce, </p>
<p>Thanks for your great video. I have both of your Cd&#8217;s and use them daily. They have really helped me to stay on track and moving closer and closer to achieving my goal.</p>
<p>Thanks for what you.You are awesome!</p>
<p>With much joy and gratitude,<br />
Kucki</p>
<p>incredibly   again</p>
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